Jill Weldum, M.A., LMFT-D
President & Founder, Alkira Marriage and Family Therapy, P.C.
Jill is a seasoned Marriage and Family Therapist with over 30 years of experience. Her approach is characterized by the blending of a “non-judgmental, compassionate, and hopeful” stance, extensive experience and high-level clinical training.
Core Expertise & Certifications
Jill maintains a diverse range of specialized credentials that allow her to treat complex relational and individual issues and speaks to her lifelong dedication to continued growth and education:
- Relationship Therapy: AAMFT Approved Supervisor and Clinical Member in Marriage & Family Therapy; Gottman Practices Level 3 certified.
- Specialties: Certified Child Play Therapist (CCPT); Discernment Counseling Certification; Prepare-Enrich Pre-Marital Facilitator; ADHD-Certified Clinical Services Provider (Adults & Children).
- Sexual Health: AASECT Member and Sex Therapist.
- Advanced Practice: Holds Diagnostic Privilege in New York State.
Current Clinical Focus
While her background is broad, her current practice interests include:
- Discernment Counseling: Working with “couples on the brink” to gain clarity and confidence in their relationship’s direction.
- Sexual Health: Supporting individuals and couples in improving their sexual well-being and intimacy
- Health Issues and Relationships: Focusing on mental health and relationship support for individuals and their family members with Parkinsons and other health challenges.
Speaking & Presentations
Jill has experience as a guest speaker at regional and national conferences, known for translating complex clinical concepts into practical, heart-centered strategies.
- Parkinson’s Advocacy: A featured speaker at recent Parkinsons Conferences, she addresses the unique mental health and relational challenges faced by those living with the disease.
- Caregiver Support: A presenter at the 2025 Caregiver Conferences providing vital tools for resilience, grief processing, and navigating the emotional toll of long-term caregiving.
Leadership & Mentorship
Jill’s role extends beyond the therapy room into the development of the next generation of clinicians:
- Group Practice Leadership: Jill developed her private practice from a staff of 1 to 15; has been on plan and off plan with insurance; has learned how to move from marketing in the 90s to website and online presence requirements, leveraging her Business Management Essentials certification from eCornell.
- Supervision: As a supervisor and consultant, Jill finds joy and satisfaction mentoring therapists and supporting their development as successful licensed professionals.
- Consultation Groups: Currently offering online small-group consultations for licensed therapists specifically focused on Couples Therapy.
- NYS Office of Professions Ethical Practice: 10-year veteran of the NYS Education Department Ethics Committee, now provides consultation for disciplinary cases.
